a note on what attracts me to people

romantically: people who are remarkable in an above-it-all, chill, easy, intellectual way. I think that’s actually really fucking accurate. an ease, a brain, and, more rationally, a kindness.

more generally: people who I perceive to be remarkable in some way; any way really. I think the intellectual and the kindness still apply, and then an additional remarkable drive is also something I am drawn towards. the ease is not something I seem to require, I think.

regardless. I had a conversation with MH the other day, and we found each other’s friendship styles to be markedly different — whereas I hand-pick my friends, she seems to fall into groups and not worry about individual friendships within those groups, instead choosing to let whatever happen naturally. JS was similar, except even more scattered, falling with literally whoever, group or not.


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